Letting Your Wife Take Charge
Would you stop your wife from assuming control of your cuckold relationship?
It is unfortunate for some husbands when their wives suddenly hijack their fantasy and make it their own. Though some husbands wouldn't mind, especially stags, or husbands who have already displayed their submissive stance and know it is a waste of time attempting to fight back the urge of being the man of the house, when it's clearly obvious they are a cuck.
For the husbands reading this article, do you remember when it was that your wife/girlfriend decided that she was going to take over the cuckold reins from your hands? It's likely that she snatched them off you unsuspecting without clueing you into why.
Was it probably that you were doing a piss-poor job of finding her a suitable mate to fuck, or that she simply felt emboldened enough to start cucking you oughtright?
Here is an excerpt from a letter sent to me from a husband:
Donna suddenly knew everything that I’d been up to. I was being stupid, sir, not realising she would know how to figure out my computer password. She found out everything I’d kept hidden from her: my cuckold porn videos, photos of nude women (including several of hers), and pictures of men sucking black men’s cocks. She confronted me about them, and I was embarrassed to admit to everything.
She asked if this was something I wanted her to do; I was so shame-faced to say yes, but I did. Donna said nothing. We went to bed like nothing ever happened.
Days passed, and I kept fearing she was going to divorce me; she did nothing of the sort. A week passed, and then another two weeks went by. I was starting to calm down, figuring nothing would ever happen until one day when I returned home and found her fucking some stranger—a black man who lived several blocks from us.
She demanded that I sit down and watch. I did watch. I watched them fuck. She hurled insults at me the entire time they fucked, up till when the man busted a nut inside her. Donna then told me—cursed at me—to come to bed and suck his cock. I did suck the black man’s cock and I did enjoy doing it. The black man has since been a recurring visitor to our home. I never asked Donna how she found him, and I know if I did, she wasn’t going to tell me.
That was the start of our cuckold relationship.
— Ron from Orlando, FL.
In some instances, the bull might be the one pulling the wife’s strings, enabling her to further sideline her cuck husband from their proceedings.
As already mentioned, some husbands have no qualms with the wife assuming control over the relationship: deciding whomever she wishes to fuck, where she wants it to go down, and whatever submissive duties her cuck is expected to perform. Stag couples are rather different with husbands preferring more to sharing their wives and assuming a distant stance as opposed to often participating submissively.
For these cuck husbands, it takes pressure off their shoulders knowing that their women are the one dictating the terms and activities of their cuckold experience. The wife would undeniably have a keen awareness when it comes to seeking the best men to spend her time with sexually. Her husband can carry out auxiliary activities like make sure her schedule runs well, or that he keeps in touch with her respective men.
However, there is a downside to this.
Most cuck husbands often feel neglected out of the relationship. The wife ventures out of the house to spend quality time with her men, while her cuck sits at home, speculating how her day is going. Such husbands have no problem playing second fiddle in the relationship, but there is an undeniable let-down knowing they aren’t allowed to participate, or at least showcase their submissive nature towards the wife’s lover.
In some instances, the bull might be the one pulling the wife’s strings, enabling her to further sideline her cuck husband from their proceedings. Not every bull is relaxed with the idea of the cuck being there to watch his erotic interaction with the wife. For those wives that are yet getting a hang of their hotwife femininity, they feel better invigorated without the husband’s presence. This instinct is equally shared with most husbands who assume positively that their wife is bound to get the best sexual experience if he doesn’t share the scene with her. Such husband is more relaxed with the wife later sharing with him intimate details regarding her exploits after she has finished for the day.
There is contentment however way the relationship goes. With the cuck getting the short end of the stick, he is better inclined to go with the outcome of things than voice his opinion most times. Assuming his wife hasn’t begun emasculating him to the point of abject humiliation, voicing out his plight won’t do much.
In summary, the choice of who gets to dictate how the relationship proceeds often wavers between couples: for some, it’s assumed the wife would take on majority of the load, since it’s her body, her sexuality. For others, it comes as a 50/50 shared venture, regardless whether they are a stag/swingers couple, or the cuck is as submissive as can be. And for those seeking Black-Ownership, the weight often depends on the wife’s Black Dom.
Marvelous story
My wife started cuckolding me just two years into our marriage. Initially we worked together on finding her men to sleep with, but about ten years into our marriage she met and started sleeping with an extremely well endowed man from our church. He and her had started their sexcapades without my involvement. He was married and his wife found out somehow and he quit seeing my wife. She was so disappointed in no longer being able to have him, she became a bit angry and one day announced that she was done with sex, because it just brought her grief. Well what she really was saying is she no longer wanted sex with me or to have me involved in who she sees. That was 10 tears ago, maybe more. She has been in charge of the cuckold side of our marriage ever since.